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Disruptive Behavior, Negativity: It’s All Drama

No matter what you call it, disruptive behavior, low morale, insubordination, workplace bullying, or negativity: It’s ALL DRAMA.

“I am just about at the end of a two year long process of managing a disruptive employee. This situation ended up with lawyers involved and should reach a settlement soon. It has been a long and painful process as this employee had been tolerated for over 15 years.”

This was a real message from an HR manager experiencing the ripple effect of behavioral issues, bad morale, insubordination, disruptive behavior and workplace bullying that went unaddressed.

This manager is not alone. Negativity spreads like a virus. According to Gallup, negativity costs U.S.businesses $250-300 billion in lost productivity every year and negatively impacts workplace relationships.

In the Stop the Workplace Drama Training Camp, you will finally learn how to identify and unravel any type of drama, no matter where or how it shows up. In fact, you will learn a new definition for drama and a new language for addressing it.

The developer and facilitator of this cutting-edge and customized program is Marlene Chism, award-winning author of Stop Workplace Drama (Wiley 2011).

Marlene is a brilliant storyteller who speaks three languages: the language of the employee, the language of the leader and the language of the owner.  Marlene says, “We are all in the same boat, but the owner just wants to get to the treasure chest on the island, the manager or leader just wants everyone to row harder and faster, and the employee (the rower) just wants a better seat cushion on the boat!” The SWD Training Camp will help you clear the fog so you can manage yourself and others, even through turbulence and change.

In the Stop the Workplace Drama Training  You Will Learn…
–How to identify the 3 most common components that are always present in drama
–5 specific communication skills to use in difficult conversations
–Why your “open door policy” may be contributing to workplace conflict
–Clarity that can change any situation
–A process to help your team stay motivated and focused on the goals and mission
–How to separate fact from fiction quickly, accurately, every time, and get to the core issue
–Creative techniques for think-outside-the-box problem solving

Denial Leads to Turnover

“I would never deal with this kind of workplace situation again. I would change jobs as it has been very negative and unpleasant. The process has taken a toll on me and my team and the employee. I didn’t realize how difficult mentally and emotionally it would be.”

The Society for Human Resources Management (SHRM) estimated that it costs $3500.00 to replace one $8.00/hour employee.  Other sources say it costs between 30-50% of the annual salary of entry-level employees, 150% of middle level employees and up to 400% for specialized high level employees.

What are the relationship problems costing your company? Sign up above for the short mini series and learn about the eight principles in the Stop Your Drama Methodology.

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Category: Featured, General, Workplace Conflict

Book Wisdom

“Stop Workplace Drama does more than reveal excuses for the inclination to drama in the workplace; it offers a wealth of ideas to improve communication, trust, and leadership that will help eliminate the energy, time, and talent drain that drama creates.”

--Stephen M. R. Covey, author of the New York Times and #1 Wall Street Journal bestseller The Speed of Trust

I’ve had the same experience with massage therapists, nurses, nail technicians, and sales reps; all kinds of professionals who were supposed to be focused on my needs, yet needed a compassionate ear to discuss what was first and foremost on their minds—their own drama. What impacts us personally also impacts us professionally…

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

“This easy-to-read book is a must have for anyone who leads others and wants to improve the workplace dynamics so your people can enthusiastically say “Thank God It’s Monday!”

--Roxanne Emmerich, author of Thank God It’s Monday!: How to Create a Workplace You and Your Customers Love

“Research by Gallup and others shows that engaged employees are more productive, more profitable, more customer-focused, safer, and more likely to withstand temptations to leave. The best-performing companies know that an employee engagement improvement strategy linked to the achievement of corporate goals will help them win in the marketplace.”

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

"Stop Workplace Drama" offers practical ideas to improve communication in the workplace to eliminate power struggles, backstabbing, and office drama.

--Michael Linenberger, author of Master Your Workday Now!

The one with clarity navigates the ship. If there’s drama in your office, I can guarantee there is someone who understands the situation better than you.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Marlene Chism's no-drama approach is down-to-earth and effective, plus it's communicated with good humor and a very big heart.

--Rick Hanson, Ph.D., author of Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom

If you are afraid of your boss, this book will give you the courage to face that fear. If you are keeping things from your boss, you will look inward to ask yourself where your commitment truly lies. If you are letting the queen bee run the show, you will be forced to face the truth and ask yourself what you are afraid of losing or who you are trying to please—and at what expense.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

"Stop Workplace Drama" is filled with fresh strategies to help leaders navigate change, reach their objectives and create a positive work climate — all at the same time!

--Jill Konrath, Author of SNAP Selling and Selling to Big Companies

Drama’s manifestations always occur because there was a failure to recognize it when it first started. You ignored the subtle innuendo from the indignant co-worker; two years later, you have a workplace bully situation. You allowed your favorite employee to have a key to the office, and now you suspect theft.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Any entrepreneur who wants to eliminate excuses and complaints and increase cooperation will benefit by reading Stop Workplace Drama.

--Mike Michalowicz Author of the cult-classic The Toilet Paper Entrepreneur

It is easy for small businesses to fall into the trap of shooting from the hip or changing the rules to suit your whims. As you grow, however, these freedoms eventually become the bars that bind you.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

‘‘Studies show that the strongest emotion in a team can ripple out and drive everyone to resonate with the same emotion without anyone consciously knowing why it is happening’’ (Rock 2009,161). Leaders have an extraordinary amount of influence on their staff.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

If you are suffering from negativity in the workplace or your life, and aren’t sure how to confront your boss, employee, or family member in a constructive way that initiates positive change, the skills you learn in Stop Workplace Drama will blow you away.

--Sam Glenn, speaker and author of A Kick in the Attitude

You cannot give your employees any more than 10 percent more workload without increasing resources. However, companies frequently downsize, double the workload, and expect the same amount of productivity. To add to the problem, employees are afraid to tell their bosses that meeting these requirements is impossible for fear that their job might be next to go. So the lie continues, and everyone is frustrated.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Marlene Chism has given the Drama Zone its own zip code! This book is a brilliant approach to halting drama in the workplace—right here, right now—and at every level within the organization. No smoke and mirrors, just real-world tips, tools and techniques to creating a "no excuses, no complaints, no regrets" workplace. Count me in!

--Anne Bruce Speaker and Bestselling Author "How to Motivate Every Employee,"

Drama exists because we haven't been taught how to identify and manage it. When you're ready to discover the true source of your drama, you need to do two things. First, look in the mirror. Second, read Marlene's intelligent yet practical book, and start moving away from the fog toward the island. Stop Workplace Drama puts pragmatic tools into the hands of anyone who is willing.

--Scott Carbonara, speaker, author of Firsthand Lessons, Secondhand Dogs

The nurturing you received during your childhood helped you create a story of who you are—and that story continues to support your abilities or struggles as a leader to this day. In some ways, all of us have looked through a distorted mirror at one point or another

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

“Got Drama? You CAN free yourself from the baggage and the resistance that is sucking the energy out of you when you walk into the office. Marlene is the master. She’ll show you how to Stop Workplace Drama…with no judgment and lots of humor.”

--Ellen Rohr, President of Bare Bones Biz, and author of Where Did the Money Go?

Don’t confuse where you are with who you are. Even if you struggle in your leadership position—if you sometimes come on too strong, weak, opinionated, or decisive—who you are is more powerful than where you are.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Marlene Chism's fresh new look at the workplace, using a contemporary psychological lens, helps each of us--manager or individual contributor--identify the unhealthy games still being played in way too many organizations. I highly recommend adding this to your business library!

--Charlotte Shelton, EdD President & CEO Unity World Headquarters

The ways we define ourselves frequently offer the very excuses we need not to change. Take, for example, the ‘‘I am a perfectionist’’ or ‘‘I am a people pleaser’’ definition.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Every day it takes all a business leader has in his arsenal to go from success to significance, especially in our world's current volatile economic climate, Now, thanks to Stop Workplace Drama we can rewrite our business scripts, clear the clutter and guarantee a long running, sold out book.”

--Benjamin Ola. Akande, Dean, George Herbert Walker School of Business and Technology, Webster University

The victim simply wants to be right. When you try to counsel an employee who is like this, you will hear versions of the tunes ‘‘But you just don’t understand’’ and ‘‘I don’t have any choices.’’

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Think of it this way: Energy is power, and we all lose power in various ways. Some of us do not get enough rest, while others let their mind wander endlessly over problems. This chapter will explain how to master your energy so that you can become more empowered and productive.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

“The principles in Stop Workplace Drama are key to good office management and more."

--Karen Blanchette~ Association Director of PAHCOM Professional Association of Health Care Office Management

Why then do we participate in blaming, complaining, backstabbing, and gossiping? We do it to lessen the pain and discomfort that taking responsibility requires of us.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

You can always find other managers who agree that a bunch of women working together spells drama. Criticizing them and finding allies in your negativity makes you right about how they are; however, it prevents you from opening to the possibility of transformational change through leadership.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

You can’t be an irresponsible boss and somehow manage to garner responsible behavior from your staff.

--Excerpt from Stop Workplace Drama

Q & A

Use Down Time Effectively

Question: My staff doesn’t use their “down time” effectively. They just spread out their work to match the time allotment.

 Answer: This is a matter of engagement, systems and rewards.   Here are some tips to help you help them to keep busy!

1. In a monthly meeting, ask for their help with what to do with down time. (This is the engagement part.) More

 

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